be wise about how you support them

Be careful not to lose yourself in the depths of their struggle. Provide your support for their journey, but it’s ultimately up to them to get the answers they need to change. In short, don’t allow it to reach a point where your compassion becomes compressed. – TheRhymeRula

Do compliments make you cringe? : Unpacking the Impact of Praise on Self-Worth

*If receiving a compliment makes you uncomfortable, you’re not alone. Around 70% of people in a survey associated feelings of embarrassment and discomfort with praise. Why do we feel this way? It starts with a surprise. Our body’s physiological responses to it and more. “It would be easy to attribute our discomfort with praise to […]

Behind the Screens: The Struggle of Being a Bad Replier

Why are some of us so bad at replying to our email and social media messages? And what does it say about us as people? I have a confession to make. This is a safe place for me to tell you this right? I never had the chance to speak on this topic. Well, here’s […]

‘The Power of Letting Go: Overcoming Regret and Embracing a Brighter Future’

Regret is experienced in two ways: When we experience a disappointing event in our lives, regret is a natural and genuine reaction. It is a decision we made that is non-reversible but can be amended in the future. We are all guilty of saying something that we can never take back or not properly thinking […]

‘Protect Your Energy: The Hidden Dangers of Dealing with Social Vampires’

Welcome viewers, leave a like if you’ve enjoyed this post, and leave a comment if you’d like to provide your thoughts on this post. I am because we are, that’s Ubuntu. As always, peace and keep it real. Social vampires tend to be selfish when communicating. They’re usually emotionally, physically, and socially draining. In other […]

Empty the envy : Everyone is having fun but you.

Envy leaps in, a vengeful pest Its cruel quest can’t be denied But when we look at what it brings We know that resentment never wins Homie where’s the growth? Ripe dreams expire But you stay stubborn and hardwired Finding it too comfortable to let go Time for a new course of action Let your […]

RFFW Podcast : You can never HIDE from SELF : T.F.S. (TRUTH, FALSE, SHADOW SIDE)

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It never ends, unless… The Ugly Truth About MICROMANIPULATION

Disclaimer: I’m not an expert on any of the nuances of narcissism and other personality types. This post is merely what I’ve learned from an article on Micromanipulation and how narcissists gain leverage in relationships for their benefit. If you have any feedback on this post and can enlighten me on this subject, leave it […]