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- Volume 3 of Thoughtful Gems (2 of 10)
One of the worst pains you could experience is getting hurt by the person you explained your pain to. – TheRhymeRula
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Definitely, and sadly happened to me. I had a friend who helped me through a hard relationship, told me that he liked me after I broke up with my ex, and we started dating. He ended up saying something to me that hurt me like my ex used to, and is now ignoring me, like my ex used to do. So, instead of getting over one painful relationship, I’m now trying to get over two, as well as losing someone I once considered a dear and special friend.
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Thank you for commenting and sharing your story. I’m sorry you had to experience that pain, disregard, and betrayal. Forgive me if this is wrong. I think your “friend” was waiting for the right opportunity to take advantage of your fragile mental state. Some prey on vulnerabilities and habitually do so once they see an opening. And in worse cases, they’ll act remorseless, may blame you, and reject accountability. Out of curiosity did your ex know your friend because he might have had some inside information that he could’ve used against you but waited for his time to express his feelings for you?
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Nope, completely unknown to one another. Your insight is interesting, hopefully wrong of course, but then I look back on how things are and were and I can’t help wonder if you aren’t at least partially right. Perhaps not so malicious, just didn’t want to lose an opportunity. Selfish maybe, rather than ill-intended.
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Meant to say thankyou for sharing your thoughts. Edited a typo and clicked post. It was too late to go back and add it in.
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