Instantly Connect: The 5 Must-Use Phrases for Building Deep Rapport

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The information in this publication was derived from a YouTube video clip, all courtesy of communication specialist Vinh Giang.

  1. Tell me more
  2. That is such an interesting way to look at it. 
  3. That must have been such a big moment for you. 
  4. What do you love most about it?
  5. I see where you’re coming from. 
  1. By saying “tell me more”, you show genuine curiosity, and it allows them to share something that could influence and provide insights that you didn’t have before the interaction. 
  2. Even if you disagree with their sentiments, saying “that is such an interesting way to look at it” opens a discussion that validates their perspective without judging, thereby signaling that you value how they think rather than what they think. 
  3. Acknowledges the emotional significance of a particular moment. In addition, it shows that you’re interested in more than just the outcome.
  4. This cuts directly to passion, and most people love talking about their interests, and who knows, the conversation may convince you to look at new endeavors. 
  5. I see where you’re coming from”, creates instant psychological safety. It demonstrates empathy and understanding, even when you don’t fully agree. 


Now, go out and use one of these five phrases in your next conversation, and see how it improves the way you communicate. Lastly, try rephrasing these phrases to your idiolect so they sound more natural.

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